How to Attract a Leo Man As a Pisces Woman

Give him sincere compliments.

Flattery is the greatest gift you can give to a Leo. Offer compliments, awe, and adoration, and he'll be thrilled. Pisces, when it comes to making others feel totally treasured, you’re an expert! Sweet, thoughtful compliments probably pop into your head on a loop all day. To get a Leo's attention, flatter him constantly. “Your hair looks extra soft and shiny today! You could be a hair model, seriously.” “I love the way you light up a room. Your presence is so bright and magnetic. Has anyone ever told you that before?” “You’ve got the most infectious attitude of anyone I’ve ever met. Being around you is always so exciting.”

Listen to him.

Leos need to feel heard, and you can offer the best empathetic ear. In this way, Pisces, you’re a Leo’s dreamboat. Leos crave an audience who makes them feel understood, and your superpower is helping people feel exactly that. Make sure that when your Leo crush has something important to say, you listen closely, validate his feelings, and ask clarifying questions. Make eye contact, nod your head when he makes a point, and offer words of encouragement: “Really? Wow, that’s crazy. Go on.” Show him that you’re empathetic to his feelings: “It makes so much sense that you’d feel that way. That’s a completely valid reason to be upset.” Ask him clarifying questions to show that you’re engaged: “Wait, can you go back a second? Why do you think that she said that?”

Show off your femininity and confidence.

A Leo will feel enchanted by Pisces’ delicate, ethereal beauty. A Pisces' charm comes naturally, but there are always ways to play up your strong, feminine aura. With your Leo crush, project confidence through eye contact and great posture. Go for style and beauty looks thought to improve your feminine energy. Wear soft lines, flowing skirts, and light colors. Wear your hair down. Go for dewy, light, and natural makeup looks.

Create grand romance.

Leos want serious romance—and Pisces, that’s your strong suit. Whether it’s a date, a gesture, or a special gift, there’s no need to hold back on over-the-top romance with a Leo. You two are idealistic in love, so whenever you bring fairytale vibes into your relationship, your Leo crush will be into it. Plan grand, romantic dates. Think moonlit picnics, slow dancing with champagne, and poetry reading by the fire. Go big on romantic gestures. Think surprise dream vacations, matching (temporary) tattoos, and love letters galore. Don’t shy away from a romantic gift or two. It doesn’t need to be expensive or luxurious. As long as your gift is thoughtful, your Leo crush will be over the moon.

Bond through creative projects.

Pisces and Leo might be the most artistic signs in the zodiac. The two of you can connect through a love of music, paintings, literature—whatever medium suits your style. Your connection is more about how you see the world; both Pisces and Leo are always switched on creatively. To strengthen your relationship, lean into this similarity. Talk with him about his creative work. Ask thoughtful questions like, “What inspired you to make this piece?” Ask him to start a new creative project with you. Not only will this help you connect, but it’ll show that you think his skills are valuable. Chat about your favorite albums, novels, or works of art. Even without formal knowledge, your artistic intuitions will make for great conversation.

Give him the spotlight when you're in public.

A Leo wants to be the center of their crush's attention 24/7. Pisces, you’re a total cheerleader to the people you care about, so this should be a snap. In social settings, try turning the group’s attention to your Leo crush. Offer him a compliment or ask him to tell a story. Anytime you make him feel special and adored, he'll be thrilled—especially if you do it in public. Find opportunities to flatter him in groups. “Oh, speaking of indie music, did you know that Joe is a great singer? He's almost done with an album, actually.” Find ways to give him the floor in group conversation. “That reminds me of your great story about karaoke in Prague, Joe. You should definitely tell it.”

Charm his friends at social events.

Leos are social butterflies, and they admire people who can work a room. Pisces, you’ve got a powerful, personal brand of charisma to offer. When you're out with your Leo crush, draw others in with your openness, empathy, and gentle conversation style. You may not want to join your Leo crush at every party and event, but when you do, lean into your natural people skills and you'll be sure to impress him. When you’re out with a Leo, it may be tempting to mirror his super bold and talkative conversation style. But instead, you should just be yourself! Ask others how they've been feeling. Let them vent, offer advice, and show sympathy for their problems. When you reconnect with someone, show that you care enough to recall personal details. Ask questions about their dog, their job, or their new haircut.

Join him for exciting experiences.

As a fire sign, Leos are always looking for a partner in adventure. Pisces, you probably love getting to go with the flow and follow another person's lead—so use this to your advantage with your Leo crush. Though you might not be as excited about cross-country road trips as you are reading by the fire, tag along on a Leo's adventures and you'll have him hooked on you in no time. If he suddenly has a day trip in mind, join him. Leos make just about everything fun, and he’ll find your openness and your willingness to jump in attractive. Show that you're excited about his idea. Make a playlist for the car, look up a restaurant on the way, and pack yummy snacks.

Let him take the lead in your relationship.

A Leo wants to be in the driver’s seat, and you'll probably enjoy that, Pisces. Let him make your dinner plans, brainstorm activities for you to try together, and organize your weekends away. Relationships should be a give and take, but don't stress if it seems like he runs the show—that's the way he likes it. Just make sure that you feel comfortable with your relationship dynamic. If you feel that his behavior went from “leading” to “controlling,” talk to him about it. As long as you’re cool-headed (and when aren’t you?), he’ll understand. Don't wait to have the conversation. As a Pisces, you're sensitive to feeling like your personal freedom is being threatened. Address the issue before it becomes a problem for your relationship and for you personally.

Let him protect you.

Leos love going to the mat for the people they care about. If you want your Leo crush to feel completely obsessed with you, let him defend you. A Leo in love won't accept any injustices on your behalf. If you want to strengthen your bond, let him call out toxic people in your life, snap at the guy who spills your drink at the bar, and generally just look out for your best interest. Leos may sometimes take confrontation a bit too far. Pisces are often conflict-averse, so this might make you feel uncomfortable. If you need him to rein it in, just ask. Make it clear that you're grateful that he cares. As long as you're appreciative, he'll understand.

Tone down the passion during fights.

Your relationship's emotional depth could make conflict more difficult. From deep discussions to physical intimacy, Leo and Pisces bring passion to everything in love. Talk through your issues before your spat gets serious to make sure this strength doesn't become a weakness. Take steps to discourage unnecessarily painful fights. When things get heated, take a break from each other. Even if it's just two minutes in separate rooms, it'll help you de-escalate. Use humor to cool things down. If tensions start to rise, make a quick joke that you know always gets your partner to laugh. Or, use touch to defuse a fight. Walk over and give your partner a hug, a pat on the leg, or a kiss.

Show him how loyal you are.

Leo and Pisces want devotion from their partners. The two of you crave a deeply committed relationship of trust, support, and honesty. When you get serious with your Leo, show him through your actions that you two are equally loyal people. You’re both so well-suited for a partnership because at the end of the day, you want the same things. In your relationship with a Leo, make sure your actions reflect that. Stay faithful when you two go exclusive. When he's struggling, make sure you're there for him. When you want things to get serious, communicate that to him: “Hey, I wanted to let you know that I’m ready for a commitment. Should we talk about that?”